If I wanted to check out a dudette at a cafe, I certainly wouldn't stare at her. I might simply ask her how she likes that particular laptop, or just wait and see if an opportune time presents itself. I don't see staring at ones breasts as "checking you out". I do see it as being extremely rude.


Oh, I don't think I said it before. "Welcome Home". what a wonderful adventure you were on in Asia/China....