Thank you so much for this post. I'm tired of Camille Paglia and her boys just can't keep it their pants apologia.
I went with a friend to the hospital when she was raped and it was humilitating and invasive and NOTHING EVER HAPPENED TO THE MOTHERFUCKER.
And after that, my boyfriend who I thought loved me didn't take no for an answer. Was I drunk? Yes. Had I been smoking dope? Yes. But I'd dated this guy for months and he was awesome and sweet and he loved me. I told him, "No, buttsex is not on the agenda tonight dear heart", passed out, and woke up later to him fucking me up the ass dry. Good times. After the screaming he said sorry and fucked me vaginally. I was so humiliated that I didn't say anything. It's not like that hurt anyway. I thought I had done something wrong. I think I probably wouldn't have had a case had this been a Law and Order episode, but how does somebody who loves you screw up like that? That was more than ten years ago and it still makes me so angry.
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Date: 2009-07-13 05:13 am (UTC)I went with a friend to the hospital when she was raped and it was humilitating and invasive and NOTHING EVER HAPPENED TO THE MOTHERFUCKER.
And after that, my boyfriend who I thought loved me didn't take no for an answer. Was I drunk? Yes. Had I been smoking dope? Yes. But I'd dated this guy for months and he was awesome and sweet and he loved me. I told him, "No, buttsex is not on the agenda tonight dear heart", passed out, and woke up later to him fucking me up the ass dry. Good times. After the screaming he said sorry and fucked me vaginally. I was so humiliated that I didn't say anything. It's not like that hurt anyway. I thought I had done something wrong. I think I probably wouldn't have had a case had this been a Law and Order episode, but how does somebody who loves you screw up like that? That was more than ten years ago and it still makes me so angry.