All I can think of off the top of my head are the quaddies and Betan hermaphrodites from the Vorkosiverse (the quaddies we spend the most time with are female, particularly in Miles' time, and there's the Nicol/Bel relationship). This is of course SF and not fantasy, so possibly not suitable for your purposes.
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Date: 2011-02-04 08:17 pm (UTC)